As we live longer, getting remarried later in life is becoming more and more common. Finding love again in your 60’s, 70’s or 80’s can be a wonderful thing, but it can also create challenging family relationships when the adult children need to adjust to their parents getting remarried. Challenges can also arise from an estate planning perspective. Often, the new spouses enter the marriage either with an already existing estate plan that leaves their estate to their adult children or their grandchildren, or their estate would be distributed this way if they do not have an estate plan. Commonly, the newlyweds want their estate plan to remain unchanged, and for their estate to still go to their children if they pass, instead of going to their new spouse, who also wants his or her estate plan to go to their children.
Couples in this scenario are often surprised to learn that it is not that simple. Missouri has spousal protection statutes that create spousal rights. These statutes are designed to prevent one spouse from disinheriting another spouse who may have depended on the spouse. These protections include the right to “take against the will.” This right allows the surviving spouse to take between one third to one half of the estate, regardless of what the estate plan says. A spouse also has a right to a “homestead allowance” up to $15,000, and one year of “spousal support.” While a surviving spouse is not required to enforce these rights, they certainly have the ability to do so.
While the law creates these rights for the surviving spouse, this may not reflect what both spouses truly want at the time that they get married. To avoid this, couples who are considering getting married later in life should strongly consider a prenuptial agreement. Many people think of prenuptial agreements as something only the wealthy need. As more people remarry later in life, prenuptial agreements are becoming more common “for the rest of us.” A prenuptial agreement enables a couple to reflect their true wishes for when one of the spouses passes away. A prenuptial agreement is the best way for the new couple to ensure that the assets they have spent their life accumulating will still go to their families in the event of a divorce or death.
Couples who are remarrying late in life are encouraged to consult with a lawyer to consider the financial and legal ramifications, and to update their estate plans. If you or a loved one is facing this scenario contact Tim McCurdy at (314) 436-8389 or tmccurdy@lashlybaer.com.